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by angryamoeba

Question by summer:

Will using a vibrator make sex stop hurting?

I have had sex only a few times over the course of a few years. It still sort of hurts like it doesn't feel good so i don't get into it. I used a vibrator once and that kind of hurt too.Will using a vibrator for a few days make it stop hurting? How else can i get sex to finally feel good?
It isn't exactly painful. Just after a little bit it is a little uncomfortable. I think it is because I don't exactly have a lot of experience.




Best answer:

Answer by Magenta
If by sex you mean vaginal intercourse then you have to be aroused before it feels good, so get your next sexual partner to do things that you really enjoy before you try that. The clitoris and labia have far more sensory nerve endings than the inside of your vagina, so there's no reason why having a penis shoved into you should feel great, especially if you havent been turned on enough beforehand by a lot of other kinds of stimulation. When you are not aroused your vagina is only about 3" long, so just forcing stuff up there doesn't help. Being hot and excited helps a lot. These links will tell you a lot about your body and how it works, and how to make sex much better for you -

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/sexual_response_orgasm_a_users_guide
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/10_of_the_best_things_you_can_do_for_your_sexual_self_at_any_age
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/anatomy_pink_parts_female_sexual_anatomy
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/first_intercourse_101
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/ready_or_not_the_scarleteen_sex_readiness_checklist

Have a look around the rest of the site too while you're there, it's really fantastic.

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